Originally Posted By: TLEE86
Will attempt to call her tomorrow but if no answer, would appreciate your thoughts on this email. Thank you guys.
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W,

We have been apart for over 10 months now, and as you know I truly I want this and although i want our marriage to work and would love if you came back and wanted to work through things. There is nothing that I don't think we can overcome. But if you are unwilling to do so and are continuing to live with another man, there are some things I have to do and some boundaries I have to set out of respect for myselfthen I am no longer willing to paying foryour truck, cellphone, and car insurance every month and I have taken your name off the credit cards. These are not meant to punish you, but again, for my well-being and self-respect. I still do not believe D is an option and would like to continue talking to you if that is something you are willing to do. Please let me know your thoughts.

-T

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I am no longer bound by the Army to let her use anymore of our money, i have a letter stating i do not need to do so anymore. The most difficult part will be after this is sent/told to her, and if she goes through D proceedings, and not hearing from her. I don't think reality will set in for her for a couple months until after she actually has had time to process things. I think she will be pretty angry when she reads this and will immediately go for the D- although I doubt that will fix anything because she will blame me for her suffering when this is all her choice.


When you say I am not punishing you, then it will come across as if you are.

I am no Wonka but this is a statement of what you have done.

Go do it then send the email.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 06/28/15 12:45 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW