It doesn't make it easier, BM, but it is one thing that keeps me going on the DB path. If she were in her right mind doing all this, I'd have no choice but to walk away completely.
Not at all, nothing about this is easy but we do what we can. I think we all fight on this part, what is their right mind or not. To them right now it is, so we have to at least respect that. Maybe in the future they will realize they weren't thinking clearly, but we cant control that now.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be