Heavy, so sorry to read all this. Listen, I don't think these 'talks' are any use at all. They don't move you forward, you go round in circles and they are just upsetting. Why have them? I think it may be a useful boundary for you to go 'children only' at this stage.

I think recently you've had a lot of engagement with your W - none of it helpful, so why continue to do so? She will say all of this stuff right now. She's still in the 'lurved up' stage of her A.....I say don't put yourself through this torture...

Whether you are done is your choice, but we all know the stats on A's my friend...

Detach and take care xxx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus