Ok..will have to tell the story later but he just left us again tonight for her..for good this time BC I said I will never take him back again..sad heartbreaking story
Ok. Let's take a step back.
What are you doing for you right now? When you joined a few weeks ago, you had a list of things you were working on. Are those still intact? Or did you stop that as soon as he came back? The only way to change the dynamics of your marriage is to CHANGE. And you know what, you can do that ALL BY YOURSELF. You can't make him be happy with you, but if you identify things that you and he don't like about you and your interactions, changing them can lead to him being happy with you.
Look, you can file for divorce right this second. But that doesn't really change anything. If I waved a wand and said "you're divorced right this second" how does that change your actual interaction and relationship with him?
The only way to change is to do the work and CHANGE. I know you can do it. Your posts show that you're strong enough.
