PP, I hear what you mean regarding moving on to a bit of anger. This is not to take away from what are very much my faults in my M. However, I do think after the numbness and depression from BD starts to lift, we are able to see things in a bit more perspective and weed out the complaints in the rewriting of marital history that maybe are not very true or accurate. I know that recently I have been able to remember certain events and memories in our M. Right after BD, I had a hard time recollecting much of anything because of my own fog. There were some very good times and I did not get everything desired from my H either. It is important to not take on blame for the entirety of our M.
My guess is that you W is leaving out some key bits of information and truths with her IC. Given the seriousness of a marital crisis it seems that your W would have more to work through than two sessions would allow. Makes me wonder if she is not medicating in someway to avoid facing her issues.
It is exciting to hear that you are working on a new area of business. I do agree there is very much a silver lining to what we are going through. Not living to our full abilities is such a waste given the short time we are here.
Last edited by BW05; 06/27/1501:43 PM.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
