Old dog seeks new trick 15

[Ggrass]

In my case xh2 basically made his choice that his a was his soulmate and no way was he giving that up, I had to step away for years. A long time he indicated.

So there is very little to save and I suspected the a had been around for nearly a year if not her then someone else.

I'm in the same boat smitten new op, his wife while abusvie more than likely she died. I'm not so sure but I both want to continue and slow down and back off at the same time. It seems like the hokey pokey is in vogue. He's so sure that things just are right.

Me I doubt everything, my judgements and thoughts of how things are, given before I never saw any signs. It's natural.

One of my 180's for me was to only commit to things I can stand by 1000000%