Thanks for sharing, Bob. Always so thoughtful! I hope you are doing well! ------------------------------------------------------ I read somewhere that someone going through a sitch like this on here, put a rubberband on their wrist and snapped anytime they started focussing on their WS/MLCer too much. I started this today and it seems to work!!
Also, I had never heard of Ashley Madison until coming on here and I checked it out yesterday. Can I just say I am so disgusted that a site like this exists. What does this say about our society when a company can make money off of helping facilitate affairs?
I'd never heard of this site either.
It seems like technology just enhances what we do with our humanity.
We used to fight each other with swords. Now it's bombs. We used to smoke pot. Now there's meth. We used to look at playboys. Now there's high speed porn and webcams.
We've always been flawed humans. Now there are purified forms of condensed sin at our fingertips daily. Shoot, my son showed me this youtube commercial of a "Hololense", a visor you wear that creates a virtual reality holographic world that can link to others as well. Coming soon. Fantasy made into real life. The first thing I said to my kids is "that will ruin millions of lives".
It is discouraging because it makes it seem impossible to think you can meet someone that doesn't succumb.
I can only hope that, as we have done through history, some of us will continue to lead through. And that the technology can be used for positive things as well. This forum is a good example of something we couldn't have done 20 years ago, and I hope it balances is out in some way. And the fact that we're all here proves not that we're 'good people', but that we are fighting the fight.
Carry on BW.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
