Sit and Spin II

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Heavy - sorry you are in such a crappy place today!!

She still doesn't "get" what she has done and most likely never will. No remorse no empathy and she is angry that I am upset. She said I wear my anger like I own it and want to be a martyr. "Poor j - she was dumped, her wife had an affair, she was cheated - poor me

This is EXACTLY what I am seeing here too. W has mocked me with these words too. Get over it - right? - so unfair - I feel your pain.

and I am accused of being too all or nothing when speaking of divorce and settlement. She wants to hold out for 3 years, or somehow fake it for the kids, or "bird nest" yet I can see none of that being healthy for the kids or me.

Can't live life like a tv drama.

You are in my thoughts Heavy