Serve the servants: Wayward Wife & LRT (7)

[asitis]

Your GAL and fun focus w/ kids is great. Keep it up.

I also disagree w/ GA, as that seems like pursuit. Give your W space with her friends, and don't assume that you aren't present in her mind while she is out partying. Post pics of the fun you and kids are having (I wouldn't even send them directly to her, just instagram like you did, or instagram most and send an extra meaningful one to her as a sort of insider, knew you'd really love this one sort of thing).

Your W is texting you pictures & videos of the kids while she has them, and not just once or twice. She is thinking of you while she is with the kids (not just thinking of the kids when she is not with them and otherwise you are out of sight and mind) and sharing things that she knows will please you. You are showing/sharing yourself making the kids very happy when you are with them (given how she is sending stuff to you, she's very likely getting the warm fuzzies seeing that). You've got reciprocation going on. You've got consideration of your happiness going on. You've got evidence that you are in her thoughts quite a bit. I wouldn't mess with that. These are very positive in my book.