They do not like any reminder of the guilt they have buried deep in that MLC dark soul of theirs.
Heavy ... even now my MLCr has just started owning she had an affair, she can not get herself to say the words, she wrote them down over the weekend and even today during lunch we were talking and she shared that she had made friends with another woman from the weekend, they were sharing .... this woman shared that her H had an A, I asked out of curiosity what W shared (knowing how private she is this was SHOCK me if she told someone anything) .... and W said .. "You mean what I've done? Oh heavens no that's personal" .... as if this woman's admission of her H's A wasn't ... anyways ... your W is not even close to admitting to herself what she is doing/what she has done is wrong. So seeing you cry starts pulling at the morals that she has shoved deep down and refuses to listen to.
Hang in there Heavy .. its rough, not easy .. but you are doing well.
