My wife's affair was not a "gift" I am grateful for. It's wayward logic to say "I celebrate sin because it made me who I am today". Instead, my wife and I both wish we could have learned this stuff without either of us experiencing and enduring adultery and the unavoidable and sometimes continuing consequences of adultery; however, we are better persons for having overcome it thus far. It's through God's love and grace that we've been able to use our story and lives to help other couples cope and overcome the same.
Maybe its wayward but it sounds like it is a gift according to what you just wrote.
