I was of the impression that the language use on communications advocated here was to make sure it demonstrated a detached, non needy confident persona. Same goes with the duration of communications and ignoring the 'small talk' ones. I may be wrong but I've not thought about trying not to upset her. Heck, me breathing upsets her right now.
Still, it's nearly the weekend and I'm meeting an old pal tonight then I have S9 all to myself for the rest of the weekend. I think I deserve a beer on the way home.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.