Thank you, PP... I need them. Trying to hold it together this morning. My W had agreed to clear her calendar to help with the kids' move, but it turns out she had booked an appointment that cut into the time we'd arranged. I couldn't help but text after I left for church that I was disappointed, especially since she has been so eager to move them out (anything that looks like forward progress toward the plans she has for her new life), and I made mention that since she's breaking up our family, they won't have a parental home to return to. Didn't know if that was the right move, but when I got back, she was working her ass off to help them, at least for as long as she could. She's been friendly to me, too... recognizing, I suppose, that this is not easy for me.
So, we'll see. After she heads to her appointment, I won't see her till next week. She doesn't know this yet, but it will be interesting to see how she responds.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19