Sounds like there's joy in your life in both the interactions with your H and those without him. That's a winning combo in my book.
Good for you for taking some time for yourself to garden and work too. My mom used to say that gardening was her therapy, sounds like it may be for you as well. What are you growing?
Take it to em in the airsoft war! No mercy.
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