Today we went to lake and had so much fun. H asked to go and he was actually fun to be around.
We have had a couple of brief talks about what happened. I don't push for it, I'm just letting him take the lead. Validation is working wonders to diffuse the tension. He is showing me positive actions and he did tell me he knows it will take time for me to trust him.
Yesterday, when I needed a break, I went out into my garden and worked. This evening, when we got back, I went shopping for a new garden fountain with my sister. I'm staying focused on me and my son. I'm going to an airsoft war this weekend with S and friends. LOL, it should be fun! H asked if he could still get a ticket. My S said he is welcome to come and stay at the campsite, but we(S and I) are doing this alone.
One goal I have set is for us go to Colorado for a couples session. I'm not going to push for that anytime soon, but if things keep going well eventually I will ask.
