In which I'm feeling lost, but will perservere

[PigPen]

I think it's also fair for you to have warning if there's ever going to be a woman in your house that you're not familiar with. That would be basic respect to me. Then you don't have to worry about what the relationship is because you didn't just walk in and what do you know, there's a woman you've never met sitting on your couch!

In the day of texting and cell phones, it's not hard to say, "Having Suzy from the office over to talk marketing tonight, just wanted to give you a head's up."

Sounds like you handled it perfectly and to give your H credit (since a lot of this forum is venting about our spouses), he handled it well too.

Good work, that's one more positive penny in the jar.

PP