Baby steps forward - lol - I don't see that but then I dont know anything these days.
There is nothing else I can do, but do as Wonka said, step aside and let the L's do their thing. I will be as dignified and mature as possible. I did speak to W for a little but this afternoon and we ironed out a few details. The less my lawyer does, the less I have to shell out.
I did find out my w is using a limited scope lawyer which is a step above not having one. He will not represent her in court if it goes that far so the part about not being able to pay for an attorney is probably true.
It is true that you can't make someone love you or want to be with you. Sometimes people fall out of love and change their course in mid stream. People are illogical and unpredictable. I guess that's what makes us so unique, our human nature, our flaws, our imperfections, and the Grace that God gives us.
I talked to my kids on FT tonight and it was great to see them.
W talked to me through kids and answered some of the questions I was asking them. I guess I will never understand this. I don't know, maybe this is the best way, just be kind, act like it's no big deal and move on. To me, the betrayal, the lies, the affair, all of it was just so painful. Maybe the D will bring some peace back into my life. That would be welcome. No more limbo, no more guessing games, just the final curtain.
As everyone says here - actions speak louder than words and her actions speak volumes. At least she has been consistent since BD - right?
