Well Eirinn, I think you handled it well. You have a right to know who's in your house while your D is there. I would want to know if I were in your shoes. (P.S. That would look pretty funny, wouldn't it? Me in your shoes? Ha!)
I believe your H got the message, so you must've done a good job! I think the manner you handled yourself really helped, too. By that I mean it sounds like you did not let your emotions take over. Wow, I need to take lessons from you.
Try to have a good evening E. I'll say a prayer for you tonight.
*Hugs* *Hugs*
"Brother Bob"
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15