A quick update. W and I did the s13 swap tonight at his baseball game. W brought him to the game, and I came later (I chose to watch the start of the NBA draft and the T-Wolves choice).

When I arrived, W was on the top row on the bleachers, and I came up behind her and she was on the phone. I put my hand on her back and she was startled. She stammered on the phone saying "I am at my son's game and my 'ex' just showed up." W quickly got off the phone, likely with some other guy. It doesn't matter anymore that W calls me her "ex", and of course, I know my W dates other men - this stuff which drove me crazy before is now like water off of a duck's back.

W then talked at me during the game saying she saw an old girlfriend yesterday, and her old best girlfriend today. And she is having a "girl's night out" with 7 women on Friday night. W said she needed her girlfriends around her with what she experienced over the past month that she had (om having a recent heart attack being the main thing).

On my stuff, I had a pre-op physical earlier this week and all is well. So I am all ready for Wednesday's spinal fusion surgery. Work is going well. And s13's team won the game tonight, and it was another gorgeous night to be out.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace