Thanks, BW! I was glad to read your post as I thought that too. I'm so sorry that your H was so defensive and argumentative. It does seem to confirm something doesn't it. I can't believe some of the semantics that our spouses will argue about. Every time I think I've detached from his craziness, a new level appears. It's like a video game!
I've been reading your sitch and hope to be caught up soon as I think there are a lot of similarities in our situations.
Have a good night, E
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out