Py,

I am not clear on what you are asking here about the L.

-Has anyone said anything about a D?
-Has anyone filed or made a move about D?

Why do you need a L to tell your wife you plan to stay where you currently are when you can do it yourself? You don't need to pull out a sledgehammer when a feather will do the job.

Originally Posted By: Pyrite
Usual story, W says that future with me will NEVER happen, irrespective of future with OM. Your last post on Smothy's thread made me realise that I have mentioned OM in nearly every conversation I have had with her and I should stop this.


Of course, they all say the very same exact script when there's OW/OM in the picture. They are resolute because they're high on the pixie dust that promises them rainbows and honeydew rain. rolling eyes

It is especially important for LBHs not to act like a gay boyfriend to the WAW who is in active affair with the OM. Have you read any of the LBH threads composed by Sandi? It is all in there.

Have you come out with a no-OM boundary speech at all? She needs to know your stance on this matter.