I believe you are right about the cultural thing, so I was probably wrong about you adding "you know" at the end. But in the US Midwest, that would come off sounding sarcastic.
But back to Wonka's post, please listen, she knows what she's talking about!!
Good luck, mate.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15