NDY,

Wonka has it! Does her suggestion make any sense?

I believe you are right about the cultural thing, so I was probably wrong about you adding "you know" at the end. But in the US Midwest, that would come off sounding sarcastic.

But back to Wonka's post, please listen, she knows what she's talking about!!

Good luck, mate. grin

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15