I know the 8 day thing won't mean she's back. I know timelines are no good, but at least it's something.

She had mentioned to the therapist before I ended it that she left her job because maybe it was a step in the right direction. I know, trust nothing she says, but her actions did have her quit her job. Confusing.

She constantly talks about the future and asking if I'm going to take a possible job that would take us out of the country for a few months (which she really wants to do). I know the rule says not to talk about the future because she's not interested in a future with me - but she's the one talking about it. Confusing again.

Holding pattern - yes - it feels that way. But there are things that can be done in that time, GAL, detaching, etc.

Me: early 30s Her: same
M: 5+yrs T:10+yrs
D (2): under 10s
OM PA - Began Apr/15
A Discovered/ILYBINILWY: Start of May
Removed ring: End of June