S9 turns up. It's a crappy rainy night here (well it's Scotland and summer so what do you expect?). WW dropped him off. So I txt her
Me: wow, so thanks. Unexpected. Really appreciate it. It's nice to see him. WW: he wanted to see you and it's raining Me: that's great, so what time should I drop him off? You can come in and say hi you know.
Did I do wrong?
I hate that I have to over analyse this stuff.
You did fine. Don't take it personally if she rebuffs the invite. Do you have any face-to-face opportunities? If so, just leave it to those and don't invite. If not, that might be worth thinking about as a baby step goal you strategize how to reach.
Just enjoy the surprise opportunity with your S!
I did mate. And thanks for the input again.
I believe there is a real cultural difference going on here. What I said wasn't abnormal in anyway. It may look odd to you guys but if I said "away an bile yer heed"'you would not have a clue what that meant. Equally, "Iree man" jamacia. I'm not from there but it has a meaning to them. Get my drift?
Ah say one! (don't remember much, but when I was in college a couple decades ago I had a job typing up one of my English professor's notes. She was Jamaican & her work was on Jamaican pigdin literature).
Iree = happy? no?
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
