Good on the MC issue, its just not going to work while the WAS is focused outside the M, smart move
Careful about that 8 day thing ... just because she is not there does not mean mentally she is 'back' ... I only say this for your benefit ... putting a timeline on when things will be better throws us in a holding pattern, rather than doing the work, DBing... GAL, 180, detaching ... we are to busy counting the days ... toss the calendar and go out and live a bit.
