Need to stop pushing

[NDY]

I

Hey gang. So short email exchange.

S9 turns up. It's a crappy rainy night here (well it's Scotland and summer so what do you expect?). WW dropped him off. So I txt her


Me: wow, so thanks. Unexpected. Really appreciate it. It's nice to see him.
WW: he wanted to see you and it's raining
Me: that's great, so what time should I drop him off? You can come in and say hi you know.

Did I do wrong?

I hate that I have to over analyse this stuff.

You did fine. Don't take it personally if she rebuffs the invite. Do you have any face-to-face opportunities? If so, just leave it to those and don't invite. If not, that might be worth thinking about as a baby step goal you strategize how to reach.

Just enjoy the surprise opportunity with your S!

I did mate. And thanks for the input again.

I believe there is a real cultural difference going on here. What I said wasn't abnormal in anyway. It may look odd to you guys but if I said "away an bile yer heed"'you would not have a clue what that meant. Equally, "Iree man" jamacia. I'm not from there but it has a meaning to them. Get my drift?