Good. I raised the issue with my IC this afternoon, since my A is coming up shortly. She agreed: say nothing. And went on to agree that I shouldn't be rude if she contacts me, she stressed she doesn't want you as her H right now and she needs to face the consequences and I should feel no obligation to be consoling for her feeling bad on that day. Letting her deal with her own feelings is respecting what she says she wants.

Good luck with making it through the emotions that come up that day!


Me: 50 W:43
S6, S3
M: 12 yrs. T: 17
M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14
S 5 Feb '15
D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry")
DB Coach May '15
Wants proceed on D Aug '15
Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15