I believe in keeping a marriage and family together but when do you know it's time to wave the white flag and give up? I know if he cheats again I have to be done with him because I can't go through that anymore. I also know if I'm going to be married my husband has to be dependable for me and our children and instead of complaining he's unhappy all the time and cheating I want somebody who actually tries to work on the marriage BC my husband tells me he doesn't know why he is unhappy he just is..that doesn't really help me much..i guess I am saying this is my last shot at this marriage


Me-30 H/STBX-32
Daughters-10,7,18 months
M-9 years T-11 years
A few BD's since 2011
H left-March 16,2015
H came back-June 6,2015
Kicked husband out BC he was still seeing OW-June 26,2015