Thanks Fogg, I will wait for now. Do you know anyone on the board who has dealt with this recently?
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You cant control if they get misinformation from outside sources so try to focus more on making sure the information coming from you (even if its a little later) is done right.
I am just worried that my older boys will be devastated if they hear about it and feel they have been kept out of the loop about it the whole time. "You knew about D the whole time and you did not tell us anything?" - and that would be the best case scenario. What if they hear outright lies? I know I cannot control what they hear elsewhere, but I can control what they hear from me, and right now all they hear is my PMA and resounding silence. I have a friend whose mother is a WW and she told me that she wished her parents had told her sooner.