Honestly? I got a life. Of my own. I went out to meet new people, I hang out with friends, I spend better time with my kids, and so on.
I proved to myself that I can still be successful and happy without my wife in my life. Now I know I don't NEED her anymore. Sure, I want her to come back. But I don't need it anymore like I thought I would.
Once you achieve that, what's left to be afraid of? The worst has already happened.
That's so true. The worst is past. It only gets better from here. Thanks Matt!
To clarify, your relationship with your wife will still probably get worse. But as everything else improves and you detach and GAL, it starts to affect you less.
