I'm not religious but your pastor sounds like a wise man.
Look, we all get the script. We, as the LBS know we weren't doing something right. So now it's too late and we scramble around looking for answers and solutions. Well, they ain't there. Not yet anyway.
But the WAS needs to do their own work. They need to confront their own issues. I get that as men we want to fix this. But we can't. Not this time. We need to step back and let it run its course. Follow the path then who knows?
I feel the same frustrations day in day out. I got my first L letter today. I knew it was coming and I knew what it was going to say but it still felt like a punch in the gut. But that's ok. I can handle that.
Strength my friend. You are doing really well in a really tough situation. THAT to me is the real test. And so far you are heading for an A+.
Keep it up.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.