I like this progress I see not only in your sitch ... but in you. You are starting to view things from what I feel is the 'above it' perspective. Yes as Wonka said perfectly .. plant those nice seeds, water them with affection, allow them to take root. I think it was BIL3 who used a reference tht really has stuck with me through all this. We allow the devil to plant weeds in our M, those weeds small and irritating at first but soon they started choking out the actual plants .... so with love and kindness we have to gently pull the weeds, and be careful not to disrupt the plants. These actions you are essentially doing this very thing.
Keep your side of the street clean, warm and inviting ... let OW and her weeds grow, your side is looking more and more inviting every single day.
