Does this require a thank you? - Suggested draft is below.

In my mailbox today at work there was a leter - I opened it and there were instructions on how to get to Friday's event, parking and where the event and room is located. W sent that and I thought that was thoughtful. It helped me out and I didn't have to dig through the internet to find it which I was going to have to do.

There was also a check for June bills (insurance, etc...). I didn't have to ask for it, it was just there. That was thoughtful too.

Question - Should I send a thank you in an email? Should I just ignore, but I am trying to show off the new and improved Heavy and that implies a thank you acknowledgement that would not be seen as pursuit or groveling.

My suggested draft:

W

Thank you for the directions to the event on Friday. I appreciate it. I am sure S9 will do a great job and I am looking forward to the event.

Heavy


Thoughts for improvements are always appreciated.

I went to the chapel at church today and prayed again for strength and to accept His will. I prayed for my W and for her happiness and that whatever happens, I want her to be happy. Of course I wish it were with me and our kids, but if that is not in His will, then I will can deal. I prayed for the OW and her W and kids too. It is hard to pray for OW but I did. I think it helps me with detachment.

I had dinner with a friend last night which made for a good evening. Ididn't get home until 8PM and had a good Face Time convo with S9 and D6 and how happy I was that they are enjoying their summer camps. D6 said she has not made any friends yet, but I assured her that she would as she is so smart and clever. I told them I was excited to see them Friday. We were FT iming when I was in the car and they asked where I was, I said just coming back from dinner with a friend.

W was off camera but I could hear her in the background a few times. I was upbeat and praised her for the Minecraft Summer Camps decision she made for S9 and how glad I am he is enjoying it. No response from her but I am pretty sure she heard it.



Last edited by HeavyD; 06/25/15 06:45 PM.

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