Happy Anniversary! I'm glad he remembered the date and got you something. Try not to allow your expectations to go up.
Edit - Please start a new thread. - Cadet
Last edited by Cadet; 06/25/1506:36 PM.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I just got flowers delivered to my office. Birds of Paradise it has been our tradition for every anniversary and the card said Happy Anniversary Love H.
This was very surprising and very nice. I called and thanked him.
Ok but I don't want to get all hopey (is that a word)Taking some deep breaths and trying to stay grounded and take it for what it is.
No expectations. Does this mean something? or mean something today and tomorrow who knows? probably the latter but it is a positive in my book.
going to GAL though because I actually am feeling more empowered by that every day. Baby steps.
I was hoping for dinner tonight but that might be pushing my luck.
Does this mean something? or mean something today and tomorrow who knows?
Yes, it means that your problems aren't escalating and that your work has drawn him into initiating. Will he sustain it? That one is harder to predict. Hard to have no expectations, but focus on sticking to your plan and seeing if there are repeats of this kind of thing to show you if he is truly headed in the right direction and that your steps are bearing fruit.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
