Update-it's been about 3 weeks since he has been back-I thought things were going ok but he ended up seeing her again and cheating on me a few times-he wanted to leave us again to her the other night *after I already told the lawyer we reconciled and we owe people a lot of money from when he wad gone* I didn't know what to do besides say what I had to say and he missed work yesterday and his parents came talk to him about it-he has decided to stay and work on the marriage and leave her alone but there is no trust at all anymore and I don't see this ending well-some texts were exchanged between me and her on his phone yesterday and she told me he is only here for the kids and I wish I was her BC she can make him happy and I can't and she has his heart and is always on his mind..he told me he is unhappy with me and she makes him happy but he doesn't know why-she isn't what I would pick over my wife but I don't get it..i really don't know how to make him happy especially with her being able to make him happy and he thought he loves her...idk what to do BC with 3 kids and no money and a billion things to worry about I honestly dont know what to do to make him want to stay and be faithful
Me-30 H/STBX-32 Daughters-10,7,18 months M-9 years T-11 years A few BD's since 2011 H left-March 16,2015 H came back-June 6,2015 Kicked husband out BC he was still seeing OW-June 26,2015
