I have changed the router password, but she can still access email on her phone, but at least I am showing her that this behavior is not being condoned by me in our home, make it harder at least.
Right now though she is not respecting my boundaries and my only solution to this in my head is - "Ok you keep talking to OM - this bothers me and you tell me nothing is going on."
Here are my choices as I see them:
We can stay under the same roof for a time while we sort the D details out. We will provide for the children, but I will not have any intimate contact with you while you continue on with the OM with the EA and become more detached. OR
I do not want to live like this so I must walk away. I have a house I can stay at rent free for as long as I want. I will care for the kids.
If I go out and sign a lease I can't pay the mortgage and the house will be foreclosed. OR
I can tell her she is no longer welcome in our home as long as the EA continues with the OM.
At this point she has agreed to a MC that is it, am I missing something in this approach?
