Diff,

Originally Posted By: DifRent
As much as she says she wants to "live alone" in her sketchy apartment, I would love to have enough normal moments like those the next month and a half so that when they are gone, she wakes up and misses them with the kind of ache in her gut that I feel every day in mine.


Exactly. This is what the LBS needs to do...planting seeds of positive memories and interactions in the WAS' mind. They are what usually draws them back home because they reflect back on the positive memories and miss the essence of the LBS.

It is a no contest at all. The OW is bound to lose...badly. grin