I did tell him that I don't want to be bitter and resentful toward him but I am feeling that way, not because he wants a divorce but because of the way he has handled/is handling it.

I also said it would be easier for me if he did go back to Afghanistan because we live in a small town and I'm not ready to see him out with somebody else. (I know that is selfish) He said he wouldn't have a problem seeing me out with someone....

I asked him if his mom knew, he said he told her "last year" and she wasn't surprised, saw it coming for years. I responded that it pissed me off that people think divorce is ok, that it's the answer....

Me-44 (45)
H- 50 (51)
M-'96

S-18(20)D-15(17)D-12(14)

BD Feb 2014 (he works overseas)
home Oct(sep rooms)
(EAs possible Pa's unconfirmed)
insists wants D through July 2015
no more talk of D since