WAS or what (2)

[roist]

Z, I am different, I am better but I am not the best I can be yet.

I am working on me, my goals and how to be happy. So I am working on my side of the equation. My half.

I feel intervening in her side of things may help. At best he is a biased friend, at worst a distraction or infatuation. As many have said before maybe there will never be any progress in our R as long as he is there. I am nit under the illusion that intervening will be a switch and all will be rosy afterwards. Just may improve the chances.

Others say need to be on W's timetable. I understand that too.

But idk. That is why I spealt it out here. Thanks for input.