Great job Eirinn, you are doing great. You didn't lay down the law, you made it clear that there was behavior you were not willing to live with. That is perfect! You will build on this moving forward...and I am taking notes
I am glad you picked up some more reading materials...like you had nothing better to do Boundaries, communication, enmeshment are all core topics you and I have struggled with and I am ecstatic that you are seeing it too!
In will post more this weekend, have to get ready for trip. Wish me luck, am taking extra stfu pills with