Yeah that can tarnish anything, but you can still have fun. I did last Saturday. It can be done. Guess it depends on what you observe. Good luck with the trip. We'll be here when you get back.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together