I have taken out DR again to see what other tips I can pick up. I find that depending where we are mentally or in our situation, different parts of her advice speaks to us.

Thanks again mrBond for your intervention allowing me to refocus. I look forward to your guidance and advice going forward.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together