WAS or what (2)

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Thanks for dropping by 2c.

Some of the stuff on the list may have been inspired by my m, but it is all for me in that it will stand to me regardless.

As of yet the relationship is "just" inappropriate. I outlined that in more details through last thread. There is a good chance that even if I do nothing it will not go anywhere. But I would prefer it to go away. It is nit right he discusses personal stuff esp mine with her.

My gut says he will do nothing. My W I am not sure what is going on in her head. . In two days there will be an end of year school event and we will all be there. I can use that occasion to do something. This guy is paranoid that everyone talks about him and the last thing he wants is more of that. I believe I could use that to be sure he backs away. If not at least the situation becomes clearer.

I have s few options
1) do nothing. If I was a betting man I would say that even if I did nothing there is a good chance (75%+) that will not developed into Each/PA. But doing something now could help make sure. In two weeks the school is out, so there is less contact for the summer........normally. plus I am nit finished improving me do waiting gives me more time, to be a brighter lighthouse.

2) contact him either directly or indirectly with a subtle or not do subtle message. I believe this would be effective. This is just my reading of the situation based on snooping observations and what I know about him.

3) give W message either directly or indirectly subtly or not. I have mixed feelings on this. Firstly for me my w is the issue and not this guy and a confrontation is probably not likely to improve things between us. Secondly maybe on a deep level that would gain her respect, which down the road could help.

Let the voting begin!