Good luck to you to A. It seems your W sounds like where my H was a few months ago where everything in the entire history was your fault. Just know that it always takes two.
Keep GALing as best you can. I don't know about you but I am doing better in I know I have things to work on but so does H. I think the hard part for me right now is when H's family ask him to do something and he does it and I am standing by myself thinking what about me.