In which I'm feeling lost, but will perservere

[Elly4]

Well now, that's the hard question. Pam is a employee of his and has been a friend for many years, but he never socialized with her outside of work that I knew of. When we first met, all his friends were female. He just always related better with them. Since we've been together he hasn't socialized with anyone until January of this year. He maintains that they are just friends and she's his employee.

So, if she's just his friend, he should be able to invite her over.