W took S today, I had a bunch of stuff to do after work, W texted me wondering if I would be home, she wAs coming by to pick up some of S things for a garage sale. I said no, I'm not home, it will likely be pretty late.
She immediately texted me back "what are you doing?"
I didn't respond right away, I was talking to someone. A couple minutes went by and she texts "are you seeing someone?"
I replied "are you serious?" To which she replied "you just seem so distant"
I asked " should I be sitting at home waiting for you to come home?" "Life goes on wether your here or not"
She apologized, said she was tired.
I guess detatching works, not sure if I handled it right or not but I feel alright about it.
I love how defensive they get. "are YOU seeing someone?" Like they expect you to be just sitting around waiting for them to seem you worthy again. If it were me, I may have been a little more mysterious about it, but I think you handled it pretty well.
