She really does need some down time - has been getting a day or so away each week. I need to remind her that she does get a break.
Her apt is really small. She had boyfriend staying there but really felt it impacted on her space. So that's not a real option for her.
She did post something about PMS later today - hopefully that's all it is. I actually think it didn't hurt to tell her that I just needed to not listen to her woes today. I was at my limit.