Sorry your here, you got a real bomb drop with the note! Holy smokes that must have been a shock.
You're going to get some amazing advice from Mr. Bond and the rest of the folks here so keep posting. Your life is also going to suck for a while, I'm sorry to say.
You may want to put together a signature on your name with the details of your situation like we all have. It helps folks.
Sending you strength.
PP
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