My H told me the other night that he knows I have alot of work to do on my self??? I just laughed to myself. Then he said he envisioned us (Me, H, and S) all in a group hug when he comes home tomorrow. Yeah, that's not going to happen. My S said he may not even be here when he gets home. It's going to be awkward!
MLC people are in their own little world.
Yep. My wife things I'm the only issue and the only one with work to do, even though she is in IC, and not too long ago said that some of her issues will mean she may be in counseling for the rest of her life. I was at a loss for words when she said she knew I thought she had things to work on, but her only problems were me and the pain of our failing M (which is only failing because she refuses to work on it - OK a bit of an oversimplification, but not too much). It took all my presence of mind to throw out a validation statement and then disconnect to go drink a giant STFU smoothie.
Fear, pain, and confusion rolled into a big ball of WTF thinking. It took a while until I worked back to just feeling a lot of compassion for her and sorrow.
As you said... their own little world.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
