I feel something, like I can see or feel like H is changing again, like maybe moving to a new phase? I don't try to pay much attention to him, but I do notice that he seems to seek me out more, that his interactions with me he is not as on edge. BUT then he does do and say many things that make me feel like he is a child again or thinking with a young mind.
He wants my attention, but then again he does not.
At times he and our S14 remind of being very much alike.
When he "tells" me something wrong our son has done, he wants me to "tell" my son instead of doing it himself.
EVERYTHING around the house or about the house, H has to tell me about it.
He has been telling me for 2 days to tell s14 to wash out his helmet, but H and S14 are home every day together, H takes him to football practice each morning, so why has he just not made s14 wash his helmet when he came home?
H wants me to take care of most things, but then he resents me when I do. H wants me to be the "mom" but then he no longer sees me as a woman.
And sex performance is declining, and I can tell it really bothers H, but I know not to mention it at all.
I guess a new phase is coming or a revist of a past phase.
Once again, I'm trying to ignore H , cause right now I dont feel like riding the roller coaster. I want to sit this go round out and just watch H scream on the ride as I watch safely from the ground.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
